Wilfred Bakes, if that's what his name was, use to be a film extra in silent movies and he was always known as Our Lillie's Wilf, but whether Lilli was his mother or sister, we have no idea. We believe that Lillie or Lilly was the sister to my father's, father, James Bakes, who passed away in the mid to late 1950s. My parents William Eric Bakes and Brenda Ellarby were married in 58.